carpenter's square, pattern, standard
If you refer to the enormity of a situation, problem, or event, you mean that it is very evil or morally offensive; this word has nothing to do with physical size.
A societal norm is the standard, model, or rule by which people conduct themselves.
That which is abnormal is unusual or out of the ordinary in some way.
Something that is enormous is huge, giant, or very big.
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